Anything for your pleasure: Nothing for my hurt or shame alone,
Knowing I am your treasure: Don’t maim my body, heart or mind,
Use before unconsenting others I will not condone,
Make me yours for your sake, but never be unkind.
We have a book, with a number of rules and rituals, most set a few years back. But this is what we use to test the ways I use her.
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A dominant and submissive life 
We had an interesting exchange recently. A propos something written in our book (which is not a rule book, exactly) and a fascinating chat at a Manchester O&P a few weeks back. Anyway – the deal for us is that what he does is, he says, not for my hurt or shame.
“Hurt as in emotional hurt?” I say: “Yes – not that”, says he..
“But, pain and embarrassment is OK then?”
“Oh, absolutely…” And, after a pause: “You have no idea of the tightrope we Doms have to walk”, he says.