I wrote this in response to a thread on Fetbook.
It isn’t me being prescriptive, I just thought about the relationship I have, how it works and what seems to make it work best. So, for her and me:
- Thou shalt respect yourself
- Thou shalt respect each other
- Thou shalt keep no secrets from each other
- Thou shalt not assume consent for something new
- All thou dost, shall be with each other’s consent
- Thou shalt respect each other’s boundaries
- Thou shalt have no limits, within your boundaries
- Thou shalt do no harm.
- Thou shalt be the best thou can be for each other
- Thou shalt respect others who know, and don’t know, who you are to each other
The above are written to apply to both of us Dom and sub. We mostly rule our dynamic through our umbrella hard limit.