The sadness of sexual swear words.

aveburysarsenTNI’m no prude. I love to fuck her cunt, bugger her up the shitter (hmm, where else can one do this) and to be her wanker and her wankee. I love her tits too.

No, what upsets me is the way most people use these lovely, earthy words.

It seems to me repressed, prudish and sad that most only or mostly use these words to express disgust, revulsion or disrespect.

The wanker gesture - fingers and thumb in circ...

Aren’t these lovely words better used to mean what they mean?

Isn’t it sad that people mean nothing good when they tell someone to “fuck off you wanker”? Why are cunts usually useless?

I’ve come to the conclusion it must mean most people think sex is something to be ashamed of, rather than something to celebrate.

Originally posted on fetbook – September 13 2013

Author: Belasarius

I possess the submission of curvy_bottom, we have a medium protocol, D/s relationship - based on the feeling that we are equa and opposite and that we love each other.

27 thoughts on “The sadness of sexual swear words.”

    1. This is precisely what I mean. This poster thinks of sexual swear words as expressions of disgust, disapproval, revulsion, etc.

      Ain’t it sad to be so repressed?

    1. I don’t hide people’s views of what I write. Given you have a strong opinion of me you should have the decency to use whatever handle the kink world knows you as.

  1. oh B you are such a petty little prick. lolling at timesharing your sub with her husband lol you cuckold pmsl tosspot

  2. so look Belasurius, make your mind up will you. Your either in favor of people commenting on your blog about swear words because on the first few replies to your blog you start off by saying that you won’t remove them replies because people have a right to say what they want and then you go and start publishing details of where people live or as close as you can find them with your poxy website software so whats it to be? are you in favor of letting people tell you what they think of you or are you just going to “out” people evey time someone posts a reply on your website that you dont like? You better not start on me either Belasuaris becuause I’m just stating facts and no your not having my name after the way you’ve replied to the previous posts here. just because someone called you a wanker dosnt give you the right to try and track them down and publish info about there isps on your website, so wind your neck in and just accept that some people think that your a knob. i tried to reply on your website but youve stopped people doing that by making them log in, are you trying to catch people calling you a few silly names now or what?

      1. you didnt respond to any of the questions nonono asked you Balsarus. are you avoiding his/her questions and why are you doing that if you think swear words are ok are you bothered about people calling you them. Obviously you have some history with people who think you are a wanker but what the heck, at leat your entertaining. heres a bigger shovel

    1. I don’t believe you can have an option where people aren’t asked to log in at least once. And I’m not going to allow the site to be overcome by spam.

      As you can see, I’ve published your spiteful reply in full.

      Look back over the blog and you’ll see that where people disagree with me, even strongly, I reply courteously and thoughtfully. I haven’t outed people. The posts on this blog were just senselessly rude and made to appear as if from multiple individuals when, in fact they came from just two.

      Oh, and could you tell me what in the post above was a fact please?

  3. im scared of you B. your like a pit bull. anytime anyone says anything you dont like all you do is try and find out who they are instead of finding out why they think your a dickhead.

    1. Nonsense. Read the blog. if people engage with me I engage right back. Always courteously, but robustly when I have a different point of view. The early replies on thiss thread were just rude and expressed no point of view.

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