He wants a blog about it, partly to show yet again the lack of privacy he feels is reasonable in our relationship. Also because he knows it makes me think.
It came about because at the time he was the only provider but also because of the way it made (makes) him feel. It is not easy to orgasm and in many ways a distraction, being too hot/cold, tired, stressed etc., could all add to the problem. So his ability to take my orgasm became quite a big deal.
As part of our dynamic it was also important. So it does not mean that orgasms are banned when we are not together (though self-induced ones are) but
that they have to be paid for, in a way that makes them his.
Usually it’s a spanking. Nothing major, but enough to remind me.
(originally posted on StrictlyNormal ), 25 April 2013.