In my BDSM ownership and symbols survey, 43 Master/slaves (M/s) participants answered the following question:
Thinking of symbols of ownership in BDSM, to what extent do you agree with the following statements?
Their responses to each of the question’s statements are below:
Symbols of ownership can be used by anybody in any BDSM dynamic, for any purpose
72% of M/s people disagreed with this (58% strongly). 14% of M/s people agreed. and 14% were neutral.
Symbols of ownership are important symbols of commitment and permanence and should be worn and respected as such.
86% agreed (70% strongly). 7% were neutral and 7% disagreed.
Symbols of ownership can be worn to indicate temporary ownership (for example in play sessions)
35% agreed (just 5% strongly agreed); 30% were neutral and 35% disagreed (which meant they thought it was ok).
Symbols of ownership are fun and have no other special significance
Only 7% agreed (none agreed strongly). 5% were neutral. 89% disagreed (77% strongly)
Symbols of ownership should only be worn by the submissive partner(s)
54% agreed. 40% responded neutrally and 21% disagreed.
Symbols of ownership can be worn by all partners
23% agreed (2% strongly). 23% were neutral and 249% disagreed (35% strongly disagreed)
A symbol of ownership can be anything the partner(s) agree on
84% agreed (the same as D/s respondents, but slightly more agreed strongly, 51% of M/s respondents as against – 44% of D/s people), 12% responded neutrally and 4% disagreed.
A collar is the accepted BDSM symbol of ownership.
86% agreed (63% strongly). . 14% were neutral and none disagreed!
Further background on this question can be found here.
If you found this interesting or useful, please think about doing the BDSM and Money survey, on the impact of BDSM on people’s pockets. Current results will be visible once you have completed the survey
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