Sometimes asymmetry can be challenging

We say we are equal but opposite and try to create a dynamic where I lead and take responsibility and she submits, serves and I adore her for it.

It even works sometimes.

•  My fear of taking all she wants to give, for fear it may be too much.
• Her wanting to shelter and support me when I am down (and my failure to let her)
  
• My hiding my weaknesses (on the principle that a D shouldn’t have any)
• Fearing the consequences of using something I enjoy, but she hates (but which makes the control seem real)
• Getting lazy about our rules and rituals.
• Getting comfy with who we are and not pushing on.

What have your challenges been?

Author: Belasarius

I possess the submission of curvy_bottom, we have a medium protocol, D/s relationship - based on the feeling that we are equa and opposite and that we love each other. View all posts by Belasarius