Sometimes asymmetry can be challenging

aveburysarsenTNWe say we are equal but opposite and try to create a dynamic where I lead and take responsibility and she submits, serves and I adore her for it.

It even works sometimes.

  •  My fear of taking all she wants to give, for fear it may be too much.
  • Her wanting to shelter and support me when I am down (and my failure to let her)
    English: line art drawing demonstrating asymme...
  • My hiding my weaknesses (on the principle that a D shouldn’t have any)
  • Fearing the consequences of using something I enjoy, but she hates (but which makes the control seem real)
  • Getting lazy about our rules and rituals.
  • Getting comfy with who we are and not pushing on.

What have your challenges been?

(Originally posted on StrangelyNormal)

Author: Belasarius

I possess the submission of curvy_bottom, we have a medium protocol, D/s relationship - based on the feeling that we are equa and opposite and that we love each other.

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