This is the eighth article about the results of the BDSM and Money Survey. I asked people to say which types of BDSM toys they had spent money on since their interest began.
A further article will look at what dominants and submissives and switches said about their spending on toys.
What we like play with
The survey asked people to say which of the following types of toys they had spent money on:
- Bondage – 84%
- Impact play – 82%
- Other – 64%
- Medical play – 37%
- Play piercing – 31%
I did not ask for more detail of what “Other” might be. I may follow this up sometime, especially as there seems a difference here in the responses I got from each side of the Atlantic.
US vs UK
UK respondents said they were a little more likely to buy stuff for tying people up and beating them than said people from the USA. 86% of UK respondents said they had bought bondage gear (81% US) and 85% of UK respondents had bought stuff for impact play (79% US). But US respondents were more likely to spend on “Other” BDSM stuff – 70% vs the UK’s 62%.
Gender differences
Women respondents were less likely to have bought bondage materials (82% vs 88% of men) but were more likely to have bought stuff for play piercing (33% vs 27%) and medical play (39% vs 33%).
BDSM Orientation
Top/dominant respondents were more likely to have spent money on any area of play. Bottoms/submissives were least likely (other than in medical play). Switches were the second most likely group to have spent money on each area of toy choice, other than medical play.
BDSM Component
There was a big difference in the popularity of play piercing between dominants/submissives and the other two groups. Whilst only 24% of dominants/submissives had bought stuff for play piercing 42% of masters/slaves had needles and 47% of sadists/masochists had bought sharps.
Sadists/masochists were the only group more likely to have spent money on impact toys rather than bondage.
Up to 385 people answered this question. 304 said they were from the UK, 122 from the USA and 25 from other countries. 239 respondents said they were female and 192 said they were male. 206 said they were bottoms/submissives, 150 said they were tops/dominants and 94 said they were switches. 286 people said they were dominants/submissives, 93 said sadists/masochists and 71 masters/slaves.
Other BDSM and Money Articles
- BDSM and Money – first results
- I’d rather have a pizza with my kids in Ibiza – priorities for spending
- BDSM as a spending priority – Female Tops or Dominants rate it as more important
- Tattoos and piercings – who has spent money on them
- What people said their income was
- What we spend on kinky clothing – US vs UK
- What we spend on what we wear – dominants, submissives and switches
The BDSM surveys
- BDSM and Money Survey
- BDSM symbols of ownership survey
- Safewords survey
- BDSM and Education Survey
- Fetish Dressing – from styles and relationships survey
- Multiple Relationships – from styles and relationships survey
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