“Ask” on StrangelyNormal

The UK BDSM website StrangelyNormal has created a first – or at least I think it is.

aveburysarsenTNThe latest board on the site is called”Ask” and it’s completely anonymous. People can say what they want* on any BDSM topic without anyone knowing who they are.

Now, I like StrangelyNormal anyway – it seems a site where people think a little before they post and robust, but considered debate seems to result – alongside a lot of very human banter. Good mix.

But this is terrific. Anyone can post any query they like without feeling silly, naive, odd, eccentric or on the sidelines. No-one is going to feel singled-out. And no showboater can say “look at me” when no one can tell who you are.

The first few threads on the board seem to be producing much more than newbie queries (which, I think, was one of the reasons “Ask” was set up). Instead, lots of debate on issues which, on boards where people are named, I’ve seen descend into cat and dog fights. Not, so far, here.

StrangelyNormal is, in my view, a damn fine site it’s fast, it works, the site-owner listens to feedback but still does things decisively and HIS way: It has real character.

But “Ask” is its finest hour, so far.

*(up to a point – the site’s admin says: “Should you think the Ask board is the place to have a go or ridicule people you are wrong. There will be one warning and should you ignore it your anonymity will be lifted and all will see your posts. Other than that feel free to post away on it.”)

Author: Belasarius

I possess the submission of curvy_bottom, we have a medium protocol, D/s relationship - based on the feeling that we are equa and opposite and that we love each other.

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

WordPress.com News

The latest news on WordPress.com and the WordPress community.

The Pageist

One person's perversion is another's normality. --Julie Peakman

Magiksub's Blog

Smile! Soon…….

A dominant and submissive life

By Belasarius and curvy bottom, a British BDSM couple

Dispatches From Dystopia

"What man by worrying can add one cubit to his span of years?"


Our ordinary lives in an open marriage


"a dievca's World" --- exploring the sensual side of Fashion, Style, submission and Life.


The greatest aim to please Him!

Bondage Love

A place to discuss love, relationships, and sex!

Getting Little in the Middle

Info and experience diminishing waistlines with corsetry, by a corset professional and fanatic

The DD Side of Things

The ins and outs of my journey with my husband into our Domestic Discipline Lifestyle!

The Joyful Submissive

Everyone is either fucking everyone, fucking no one, or fucking just one. There there's me.

"Boys in Our Books"...

...we're keeping our name but expanding our offerings!

Submitted To Him

I'm Finally Surrendering...

Shamelessly Guiltless

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” ~Oscar Wilde


BDSM, Dark Fantasy and Horror Stories by Venom

KinkyLittleGirl - On Abuse and BDSM

A compendium of resources and thoughts about abuse in the BDSM world, and a lot about abuse in general that is useful regardless of one's sexual preferences.


scream to god for death by drowning for one salt taste of the sea once more

A Dominants and submissives Rants & Raves

A Dominant & a submissive shares thoughts, personal stories & experiences.

%d bloggers like this: